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Saturday, October 5, 2019

Harry T. Halsey



Photo of Harry T. Halsey found in an old Bible belonging to his sister Abigail Fithian Halsey, labeled “H. J. Halsey, Southampton, May 6, 189-”
L to R: Charles Henry Halsey (1830-1906), Edna Halsey Ruland (1874-1948, seated in front), Lizbeth Halsey White (1869-1932), Joanna Augusta "Aunt Gus" Terry Halsey (1845-1929), Harry T. Halsey (1864-1903), Jesse Halsey (1882-1954), Thomas Terry (1808-1892), and Abigail Fithian Halsey (1873-1946) likely taken sometime around 1889 following the deaths of Melvina Terry Halsey (1842-1887) and Wilman N. Halsey (1838-1889).

Melvina Dunreath Terry Halsey's entry in Lizbeth's autograph book, 1883.
Harry’s entry in his sister Lizbeth Halsey White’s autograph book, 1884.






Tuesday, September 17, 2013

49 No. Main | 1891

The Old Halsey House
April 23, 1891
"Grandfather, with his two brothers, had been apprenticed to a mason in New York City, where they built many of the buildings in Greenwich Village and on Canal Street. Some of these are still standing; one on Grove Street has the identical trim and fireplace and mantle as that in our Southampton house which grandfather acquired when business reverses in 1832 drove him back to the country. He bought a farm, with the help of an unpopular brother-in-law, and rebuilt an old house Cape Cod style. I am told (or was told) that my mother used to say that if she ever built a house, even though it was no bigger than a pepper box, it would have two stories. The ceilings were (and are) low, the doorways more so, and upstairs in only half of a room can one stand upright. Dormer windows have corrected this to some extent but added little to the exterior appearance of the house. Forty years ago I raised up the old lean-to kitchen and superimposed another storey with a gambrel roof so that the house is now half Dutch and half English—like historical-geographic Long Island itself." --Jesse Halsey

In 1891, the residents of 49 N. would have been: Charles, son Harry, daughter Abigail, and son Jesse Halsey--as Charles's wife, Melvina, had died about five years earlier. His eldest daughter, Lizbeth Halsey Post, was already married. In addition, Melvina's sister, Augusta Terry Halsey, and her daughter, Edna, became a de facto part of the household in 1889 after Wilman Halsey (Charles's brother and 'Aunt Gussie's' husband) died, although they continued to live across the street in the Halsey/Ruland/Honnet home. In addition, Harry married Ida Pettet at some point during these years. My best guess on this photos is that the child on the fence post is Jesse (age 10), the two men leaning on the fence on either side of him are his father Charles and his brother Harry, the woman in the center is likely Aunt Augusta, and the two younger women in the back, Lizbeth and Abigail (though one or the other might also be Edna or Ida).

Photo courtesy collection of Con Crowley.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Billy Bunker’s Christmas

by Reverend Jesse Halsey

Fish, fish, fish. It seemed that the season that year was interminable. Little Billy had rode out with his grandfather and younger brother day after day to see some of his more fortunate neighbors, who owned or had an interest in some merchant’s trap, come home each day with their traps loaded, but bait had been scarce and the hook and line men along shore had had very poor luck all the season through.

Billy and all his relatives and all the neighbors made their livelihood from fishing and when fish were plentiful everyone was happy. When fish do not “strike in “ at a certain section of the shore it means that as winter comes on these people face almost starvation—and Billy was going on 15. His father had died when he was but five. His mother had made a heroic effort to keep her little family of four together, but because of the lack of nutritious diet and because of the little hovel in which they lived, after a few years of struggle disease had come off master. Billy’s grandfather, a man past seventy, doubled up with rheumatism, had taken all the children to live with him. His wife, not much younger than himself, had mothered the little brood, and now that the old man at times was scarce able to do anything, Billy had become the main support of the family. Before fishing season came on in the Spring, he would work around the Mission premised helping Uncle Joe Pelley clean up. With the coming of the first fish, he and his younger brother, Harry, and the old man (if he were able) would start out “jigging” the first card. When bait became necessary for fishing, some of the neighbors who owned herring net very often provided Billy and Uncle Jim, as his grandfather was commonly known among the people, with bait.

Along in August when squib were used as bait, Billy and Harry each evening must row around two or three miles and try their hands towards capturing the curious little octopus that served as bait for the fishermen, sometimes successful, more often not during the summer of which we write, when they came home tired and discouraged.

Our days in the summer are long and when one works through from daylight to dark, he has put in at least eighteen hours. When fish were plentiful everyone was busy by sun-up and the men would be away to the fishing grounds until evening. The women and older men would then be busy all night cleaning and salting the fish, and there had been many a scene of great activity around the little hovel when the owners were so fortunate as to have an interest in a trap, but as I said, for the hook and line men it had been a hard summer. With the coming of the first ice in early November, the departure of the last trading schooner, for which Uncle Jim had held his fish, hoping for a late fall advance in price, the winter had set in. Aunt Phoebe, Billy’s step-grandmother, had been far from well all summer, and with the coming of the severe weather was confined to her bed. Along late in November she was taken to the Mission Hospital, and Billy with a team of poor old dogs began to make his trips into the country to get the winter supply of firewood. Uncle Jim, fairly well for him, had secured the paintorship of the little chapel at the munificent salary of one dollar a week.

Even on very “dirty days” Billy and Harry might be seen early each morning, (and of course at this time of the year the days were proportionately short, as they had been long in the summer), working their way up the harbor back of the Mission on their way to the woods. One day when there was a “glitter” over the trees, and every man as he went into the woods had warned his son of the danger of the axe glazing off, Billy and Harry with sound admonition as to the danger of chopping wood on a day like that by Uncle Joe, had gone into the country, and Billy, with a boy’s disregard for the instructions of his elders, had carelessly let his axe glaze off the tree and planted it solidly in his instep. The skin boots that our people use in winter, admirably adapted for the purpose of running over the snow, or use with snow-shoes, offered no protection against the sharply whetted steel. Very much frightened, Harry called to some of the men not so far distant and with their help brought Billy to the hospital. Under the skillful care of Dr. Johns, the wound had nearly healed by Christmastime, but Billy would not be allowed to go home for some time. Uncle Jim was doubled up with rheumatism. Billy had become a great favorite in the hospital with the nurses and other patients. The mail boat, you must understand, makes its last trip before Christmas, and a few of the patients who had secured their discharge, were eagerly awaiting the time to come when they should sail away to their homes in the South. But there were a number, possibly twenty, of the chronic cases that must remain all winter in the hospital, and with these bedridden sufferers, Billy had become a great favorite.

All the mission employees would be given a dinner on Christmas Eve, there would be a tree for the orphanage children, and a tree on another night just after Christmas for all the children in the harbor, but the special concern of the nurses was to give these men and women and children in the hospital a Merry Christmas, coming many of them from homes where Christmas had never been observed. Some of these children had never owned a toy or a doll. Now the supply, while not limitless, always seemed to be sufficient, thanks to the kindness of our friends, and provision had been made for every boy and girl throughout the whole district. This was the year when the “Candy Lady” had so bountifully remembered us, and Billy at that time hobbling around on a crutch, had his part in filling the thousand candy boxes that were distributed all around among our children. When questioned as to the extend of his Christmas experiences, Billy had told the head nurse that on one occasion Skipper Jim Souley, his uncle, who has recently returned from a fishing cruise to the South, had brought him and Harry a box of candy. The boy’s imagination had magnified the size of that box so that some times it appeared to have been a packing case, but when I questioned Uncle Joe as to its actual size, I found that each boy had received just a pound of hard sugar candy. Beyond this Billy knew very little of Christmas, for Billy had been born well to the North of our station, and during the hard years that followed his father’s death, he saw very little of life. He had been picked up and brought to one of our hospitals in an almost starving condition. After treatment, and more especially after receiving proper nourishment, he had gone back, as I said, to live with his grandfather. Billy’s earlier experience in the hospital had been such a pleasant one that he told the nurse that at times he was almost glad he had cut his foot, and the prospect of spending Christmas in the hospital was something that overjoyed him. Bright and early Christmas morning Billy was astir. He had been taken into the confidence of the nurses and in fact was their confederate. The tree had been planted securely in a box and trimmed outside. At six o’clock, when the day’s work began in the hospital, Billy dressed up as Father Christmas, brought the tree in to the men’s yard, where most of the bedridden patients happened to be. All the children had been brought in from the other wards and when everything was arranged Billy lit the candles. During the night a stocking had been filled and placed at the head of every bed.

Men were there fifty years old who had never seen a Christmas stocking and only three in the room had ever seen a Christmas tree lighted with real candles. Then Billy’s work began. With marvelous forethought the Doctor had made a trip to civilization late in the fall and had brought back appropriate gifts for each patient. Some times it taxed one’s ingenuity to find a thing that a man absolutely helpless might use or appreciate, but the nurses had been successful and Billy hobbling around had the satisfaction of delivering one of Santa Claus’s presents to each patient in the hospital.

About that time the parson came in and read a Christmas story from the gospel, all joined in a brief word of prayer and several carols were sung, after which breakfast was announced. Think of living in a country where potatoes are as much of a luxury and seem about as often as an orange was with us thirty years ago. Think of having a whole white potato for your Christmas breakfast! Each tray, tastily decorated, was filled with good things according to the conditions of the respective patients. A little girl, recovering from a fever, on a milk diet, had the juice of an orange. Old Bill Johnson, who constantly was complaining that something was the matter with his stomach, did justice to a tray well provisioned with the most substantial edibles that our crude larder supplied. It was a day of great happiness from morning until night, and with the departure of the sun at two o’clock in the afternoon, and the preparation for a long evening, there were many who with the experience of their first real Christmas, were so exhausted that they had no further interest. But for the number who remained in the men’s ward, the parson came and read Dickens’ Christmas Carol, and again read the old story of the first Christmas and talked a while about the “Great Christmas Gift.”

Billy Bunker, now nearly twenty, is the support of old Uncle Jim and the boys, for the grandmother never came home from the hospital. He is not only bread winner, but is also bread preparer. He has learned his lesson and is more skillful with the axe when he goes into the woods. Always a good pile of firewood is to be seen beside their back door. At every Christmastime since his memorable one at the hospital, he has provided a little tree for his younger brothers and sister, and with tinsel and decorations that he hordes from year to year.

Courtesy Jesse Halsey Manuscript Collection | Princeton Theological Seminary Libraries | Special Collections

Thursday, September 20, 2012

The Last Will and Testament of Harry T. Halsey | October 31, 1903


On this 7th day of October in the year 1903 . . .

The Petition of Ida P. Halsey of the town of Southampton in the County of Suffolk, N.Y., respectfully showeth that Harry T. Halsey of the town of Southampton in said County departed this life at his residence in said town of Southampton on or about the 30ths day of September 1903 leaving a last Will And Testament dated July 25, 1902, and a codicil there dated September 5, 1903, relating to both real and personal property and in which your petition is named as Executrix. That the said deceased left his surviving a widow your petitioner. Your petitioner further states the widow, all the heirs, all the next of kin of said deceased, testator, together with their residence and degree of relationship are as follows, to with:

Your petitioner: Ida P. Halsey, widow
Charles H. Halsey, father
Jesse Halsey, brother
Elizabeth White, sister
Abigail Halsey, sister

We Jesse Halsey, Charles H. Halsey, Elizabeth White, [Abigail F. Halsey in separate document from State of Pennsylvania, County of Montgomery] the undersigned, being full age, and heir and next of kin of Harry T. Halsey deceased, named in the petition herein do hereby appear in person and waive the issuance and service of a citation in the above entitled matter and consent that the last Will and Testament and codicil thereby of said Harry D. Halsey deceased bearing date July 24, 1902 and September 3, 1903 respectively be admitted to probate forthwith.
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Be it Remembered, That on this 7th day of November in the year one thousand nine hundred and three before Nathan O. Petty, Clerk of the Surrogate’s Court of said County, personally appeared Edward P. White who being by the said Clerk duly sworn and examined, says: I was well acquainted with Harry T. Halsey, deceased, bearing date the 25th day of July in the year one thousand nine hundred and two; that such subscription was made by the said Testator in my presence and in the presence of Edward H. Foster and William R. Halsey the other subscribing witnesses that the said Testator at the same time declared the instrument so subscribed by him to be his Last Will and Testament—whereupon at the same time I and said Edward H. Foster and William R. Halsey signed our names at the end thereof, at the request of the said Testator and that the said Testator at the time of executing and publishing the said Last Will and Testament, was of full age, of sound mind and memory, and not under any restraint. ---Edward P. White
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GENERAL INVENTORY
Money in Southold Savings Bank with int. to Sept. 30, 1903.      751.22
Note                                                                                                    150.00
In. on note                                                                                          12.95
(Possibly int.. will not be paid.)

One third interest in business of Halsey, White & Halsey
Real Estate                                                                                         4,000
Wagon                                                                                                            12
Stock on hand                                                                                    487.25
Money “ “                                                                                           21.00
Bills Receivable                                                                                  39.00

One half interest in business of Halsey & White
Business estimated at $5,000 about

--Ida P. Halsey, Executrix

Note: Included in business estimate of Halsey & White:
Stock on hand belonging to Halsey & White
Contents of business bldgs 745
Scales                                      50.00
½ int. in Water Mill Scales   50.00

Buildings for storing             200
Farming implements                        $135
Live Stock                               90

Appraisers:
S.B. Livingston Bowden
S.W. W. Seymour White

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

"my heartfelt sympathy"

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October 7, 1903
Elmira, N. Y.
Dear Cousin Charles,
The sad news of your son’s death reached us a day or two ago and I immediately recalled his kindness to me on the only occasion I remember having seen him.

It was on the occasion of my visit to Long Island three years ago and he at once impressed me with his kindness, cordiality, and almost brotherly interest.

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and especially extend this to his wife. I wish that we lived nearer each other so that we might be with you at this time.

Our love to all of you.

Affectionately,
S. Edward Roer

Fathers & Brothers

"In the fullness of time the old gentleman slept with his fathers and the little boy grew up, as little boys will."  --Reverend Jesse Halsey

from The Quick and the Dead c 1931

Then through the hills of the T.B. country, many couples, who are taking the cure, are out walking at the close of the day (I know something about the process, a brother and a sister having gone through it, one successfully).

from One Extra Curriculum or Adventures in Overalls c 1934

I am now, and have been for twenty years, the minister of a God fearing congregation that quite often wears dinner jackets. Needless to say, I don’t wear overalls in the pulpit. But they are, I rather think, thanks to my father, a symbol of my philosophy of life. My ancestors were sea-faring men, chasing whales from Kamchatka to Palmer Land. They sailed the seven seas. I have had to make my adventure nearer home, and these are a sample of some of the interesting things that have happened.

*** 

All but ready for college; hard work on the farm, day after day, through a long, hot summer. Father was often sick and my older brother an almost chronic invalid. I was working nights to get off a college entrance exam in German. Then came the uncertainty as to the possibility of going—one day going, the next, staying. Finally, a week before school was to open, everyone was better and college seemed assured. [1899?] Saturday, September 16, “going.” Sunday, the 17th, “going tomorrow at 7:15 A. M.” “Monday, the 18th.” Up at four in the morning and into overalls to milk for the last time and drive the cows to pasture. Then, a bath, a new suit, breakfast, the train, two ferries, another train, Princeton! All set to go! But came 6 A.M., there were no family prayers. “Father’s sick.” My older brother called me to his bed. “I don’t see how we can spare you. Go, if you think you ought (hard word to a New England conscience). We’ll find the money and get on somehow.

“If you ought?”= “If you can?” A long moment of terrific struggle, then up the stairs, back into overalls, down the lane behind the white horses (or their successors) and as the long, brown furrow turned ‘ere the train goes by, and I waved to the fellow who was supposed to be my roommate.

Then, for four years it was overalls all day and books at night; work, hard work, that made a boy into a man. Sickness at home, long painful days, tedious, painful nights, watching and crude nursing; learning, learning things not found in books, learning, so that, automatically, as one says 6 x 6, duty stands before pleasure and the days of work and nights of broken sleep, reading, study snatched here and there, with correspondence courses and a few weeks now and then in the winter, at the college, result in a body hard as nails, needing little sleep, splendid health and happy heart withal—work had become joy. The inoculation had become successful.

My brother died. I assumed the farm responsibility. Some crops failed, others succeeded (more of the former), and gradually I worked out my own schemes, sometimes with my father’s approbation and sometimes without. (But he always paid the bills.) I was handy with tools, so plumbing found its way into the old farmhouse, also steam heat and electric lights. Winter days laying hardwood floors. (Now I wish the old wide pine and oak floorboards worn by the feet of many grandmothers, were back.) New roofs, better stables, sheds, etc., were made possible by an overall ability inherited from my grandfather. My father, until the last years of his life, never had five hundred dollars in cash in any one year, but we lived well on what we raised, and traded produce for groceries and dry goods—of actual cash there was very little.

from Memoir: Section One, p. 14 c 1952

After mother died (when I was five) father took on the heavy responsibility of doing all that he could to take her place. He spent his evenings reading to me and telling me stories. I was with him constantly as he drove to the farm about half a mile removed from our barn and farm house. I followed him about his work and I imagined furnished him some small measure of companionship that he missed in mother's going. He was devoted to her memory and twenty years afterward I have come upon him at night kneeling at his bedside looking at her picture and pouring out his heart.

Harry T. Halsey | Obituary

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Sea-Side Times | Southampton, N. Y.
Thursday, October 1, 1903
 
A Man of Sterling Character and Christian Fortitude

Harry T. Halsey died at his home in this village at six o’clock yesterday morning after a long and wasting illness from which he has suffered for many years.

Harry Thomas Halsey was born in Southampton November 12, 1864. He was the eldest son of Charles Henry and Melvina Terry Halsey. He was named for his two grandfathers, Captain Harry Halsey, of Southampton, and Mr. Thomas Terry, of Terryville, near Port Jefferson.

Mr. Halsey was a young man of broad intelligence and sterling character. He was educated at the old Southampton Academy. At an early age he united with the Presbyterian Church and was later made a ruling elder being one of the youngest men ever chose to set in that capacity.

A dozen years ago he entered into a partnership with W. Seymour White under the firm name of Halsey and White to deal in farm produce, farmers’ supplies, and coal. The business is still in a flourishing condition.

Very soon after embarking in business Mr. Halsey was seized with an alarming affection of the lungs and went to Colorado in quest of health. He returned the following year but little benefited, but through the skill of physicians and extreme care on his part the progress of the disease was arrested.

He has spent several winters in the South, in Virginia, Georgia, or the Carolinas, daring to remain at home only during the summer. For more than ten years he has made a hard battle for life and for the last year or two has been in very terrible condition.

Last winter he lived near Thomasville, GA, and when he returned home his friends finally realized that it was his last winter S[?]. He was sick most of the time and confined to the house during the past summer and [?] past summers but was [?] when the expected end actually came.

The funeral service will be held his home tomorrow after at half past 1 o’clock.

On October 19, 1899, Mr. Halsey married Miss Ida D. Pettet, a favorite teacher at the new Southampton Union School. No children were born to them.

Besides a widow and his father, Mr. Halsey leaves [behind a brother, Jesse Halsey, and two sisters,] Miss Abigail Halsey [and Mrs. Edward P. White.]

Letter from Ida P. Halsey* | 1904


Dear Brother Jess,

When Harry and I were talking about the little gifts, he asked what I thought of them and I said that yours seemed rather small. You will remember that Harry left me the balance remaining after paying the little sums mentioned, and I told him that you ought to have it. He said, “Do you think so, I’m glad to hear you say that,” and he smiled so contentedly.

I have reserved $400 for expenses, the stone will probably cost from $225 to $250—the expenses, you know, were $184.60. The amount in bank including interest on September 30th was $751.22. The legacies amount to $275, including your own $50, so that leaves you $126.22.

For your Christmas gift, I have wanted to give you Harry’s desk and desk chairs. I can hardly bring myself to part with them—so I give you the use of them until sometime when I might wish them—it is more than likely that they will always be yours.

With our best wishes for today and every day,

Lovingly,

Ida P.H.

*Ida Pettet Halsey was the widow of Jesse Halsey's older brother Harry. She later married Eli H. Fordham.  

Friday, September 14, 2012

Charles Henry Halsey | Obituary


The Southampton Press,
Wednesday, August 15, 1906

Charles Henry Halsey

Last Thursday, at five o’clock in the morning, another of our oldest inhabitants passed away at the ripe age of 73 years and 10 months, 72 of which were spent in this village. Mr. Halsey was born in New York city, where his father, Captain Harry Halsey, pursued his trade of mason.

Although not taking an active part in village and church affairs officially, Mr. Halsey maintained an interest in both and was always interested in the ways and means looking to success in all undertakings affecting each. A life-long member of the Presbyterian church, Mr. Halsey was consistent in his belief and led the life of a true christian. Genial and kindly in his associations with his fellow men, he was universally respected and leaves to his family and friend an honorable memory.

Mr. Halsey was descended from one of the Colonial families and was eight in line from Thomas Halsey, 1640: Daniel, Daniel, Henry, Jesse, Charles Fithian, Captain Harry, Charles Henry.

The deceased was the son of Captain Harry and Eliza Halsey, and was born October 10th, 1830. He married Melvina D., daughter of Thomas Terry, December 24th, 1863. She died June 2, 1887, of pneumonia, aged 43 years. Four children were born to them: Harry Thomas, deceased; Lizzie May, wife of Edward P. White; Abigail Fithian, and Jesse, who survive.

The funeral with was held at his late residence at two o’clock Saturday afternoon was largely attended. Rev. R. S. Campbell, D.D. conducting the services. Internment in new cemetery.

Hatchment


by Jesse Halsey

“They heard not the voice of Him that spake to me.”

{Jack Gardner [is a] soldier who joins church on return because of sunset experience; boy at the wood-pile.}

Hog—swine
Pig—Pork
Cow—beef
Hash—Popui; Webster in one of his definitions of hash, frankly says “A mess.”

Not to tarry over definition—a best this is, but popui—with sauce or without, a hash of experience. No horse meat, we trust—though we can testify it’s not so bad when you don’t know it. We had a sausage factory improvised in Siberia during the War, supposedly and actually we used reindeer meat, but I have a suspicion that ex cavalry equines go in at times, rabbits (arctic hares that is), and when one is skun a mongrel Eskimo dog looks just the same and if you don’t know it—tastes the same or similar. (I have eaten snakes in Japan, didn’t know the difference, thinking they were eels—which I catch thru the ice on Long Island, skin and fry—a delectable morsel.)

Why this dietetic metaphor—I can’t say; we started with hash. And this is just a sample here and there out of an oldster’s reminiscences of things grave and gay; res sacra and res secularia, unrelated likely to any logic, but tied into the stream of life for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, till death doth part soul and body and memory fades out of fructifies into heavenly harvest—or hellish (most hells of any gripping reality to men since Dante are constructed of memories).

But to get on; or rather to go back. Some one asked Duncan Spaeth, coach of the Princeton Crew why it was that rowing was his favorite sport—“Only thing I know where by looking back you can get ahead.” (Parenthesis, no two. The very time that Henry Ford called all history “bunk” he, nonetheless, was putting little concave mirrors on the front of the drivers [side] so he could see the road behind; that’s the only way to drive safely to at least glance on the road behind.)

With this recurring justification or alibi or reminiscence, we start again. A new England kitchen, big fireplace, brick oven, Saturday night and baked beans and brown bread. A red damask spic and span table cloth on a square walnut table; four persons seated. Kerosene lamp, flickers from the smoldering fireplace; the lazy hum of the tea kettle, now that the tea is brewed. A boy maybe twelve, and his older sister back to the wall, facing the fire; bewildered father at one end of the table, elderly aunt at the other.

Melvina Terry Halsey, 1842-1887
Father seemed old to the boy whose mother was dead, he himself as one born out of due time; father seemed old, he was old, looked old, felt old (rheumatism; its antidote a jug of hard cider with whittlings of barberry in it; the boy often went a mile down the lane to Uncle Harvey's barberry for twigs and bark for the decoction). Mother had died, quite young, when boy was five or less; father lived ever under its shadow; older sisters always thought that if father had been less stubborn (loyal) and had the new doctor who had come fresh from Ann Arbor and never lost a case of pneumonia, likely mother would have lived--who knows.

Aunt Gussie’s (her husband father's brother, she was mother's sister) husband, Uncle Will, our favorite out of a baker's dozen, at least, of uncles, had taken the boy, od six, his adult brother (and a neighbor's boy of fiveLewis Hildrethon a clamming expedition. One horse box wagon, two wash tubs with ropes attached and down to Sebonac "gut" where the tide cuts in and out between the big bay and the cold spring, scallop bondRam Island and other ramifying creeks. (They say cricks down east, our way.) . . .

The men go out on the flats and beyond, the crop is plentiful and the tubs soon filled—a long hour or so—the boys play on the shore, shells and stones in many shapes and colors collected and arranged, and houses built and paddling in the lapping wash of the tiny waves; swimming lessons will come later when the men get back. Uncle Will is nearing the shore, crossing the channel, when he throws up his hands and flounders in the tide rip. The boys think he is playing a trick to amuse them. (He was always up to making them laugh—our favorite uncle.) He goes down “for the third time” as the saying goes and Lewis says (I can hear his lisp now), “I guess he’s gone down to look for his hat.” Alarmed, they begin to run up and down the beach wafting their coats like the old folks do when they sight a whale, shouting till finally Harry comes slowly thru the teeming water but fast he can, reaching the flat he kicks off the tub handle half of it, thus free from the rope and tub he plunges in the deep water of the gut and though the tide has carried tub and body far into the inlet he reaches the tub, now empty, tied to uncle Will and brings the body to the shore; the boys following the shoreline come to the place and stand helpless by while Harry rolls the body on the tub trying to extract the water from the lungs. (No Red Cross training in those days; only sailor’s methods.) Some furtive clam diggers from another township across the bay whose sloop is hidden behind Ram Island, hearing the boys’ shouts finally come and they and Harry work on half an hour without avail. The boy hears his brother now, across the intervening half century plus, as Harry lifts our uncle’s lifeless body into the one horse farm wagon, carefully bedded with dry seaweed from the shore—a fitting coach for an old whaler, but still (brothers sob) it seems inappropriate for a man just entering middle life. The long slow drive home, Harry and the boys on the seat, the body in the wagon shrouded in the horse blanket. The boys eat the lunch—wondering why Harry doesn’t. (They were six and five.) We stop at the first house from the shore and tell Cap’n ‘Lias (White), he saddles his horse and rides to the village to find Father, who like the elder brother of the parable only in this one regard was “in the field,” after going to tell his sister-in-law and her daughter, joins us at the foot of the lane as we come up to the house.

No professional morticians in those days—not there at least—and old Aunt Libbie who had ushered us all into the world and our parents before us—Aunt Libbie takes over. The boy at her direction goes across the street to Father’s barn to show the men where to find the rough pine plank 48’’ x 6’ on which his mother had been “laid out” some months before; stored up there in the hay mow (the east end where a great round shiny ships spar tied the hand hewn oak rafters together. What a job for a boy—or boys, for “Little Lewis” went along, too. (He died the next year.) But that’s another story; we wander too far; let’s get back to the kitchen table. There are shadows in the room you see; not of westerning sun’s making for the flicker of the fireplace logs—Father at one end of the table, Aunt Gussie at the other, going their best for the others’ sake to be cheerful.

. . . No levity; but much wisdom in the meagre conversation. Meagre is the gossip ("Gossip" says father, who studies the dictionary and knew his Latin from Academy days, "'Gossip' was once a good word akin to Gospel"--let's make it that and when some really unpleasant sure enough bit of unsavory morsel of truth filtered in, Father would say, "As Biney (his wife, my mother) used to say, 'Maye, for we all have a crook in the elbow.'" Then he would add as was his Scriptural custom, "Charity covereth a multitude of sins."

Thursday, November 10, 2011

1902


"Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord"; the words came slowly but with firm enunciation, deep groanings and checked sobs were impounded by their cadence no doubt. The habit of years could not be broken. The family were at morning prayers though the oldest son had just died. My father, past seventy, read on, for fifty years this had been the daily routine, now it stood him in good stead, as it had before. Twenty years ago his young wife had died, now it was his eldest son; "He knoweth our frame, He remembreth . . ." He hesitated then stopped. It was a good terminus; the rest was so obvious just now.

--Jesse Halsey

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

The Memory of the Just is Blessed

Charles Henry Halsey
B: Oct. 10, 1830
D: Aug. 9, 1906

Melvina D. Terry
B: Jun. 5, 1840
D: Jun. 2, 1887
His Wife



Joanna Augusta Halsey
B: Dec. 25, 1845
D: May 27, 1929
Widow of Wilmun Halsey

Wilmun Halsey
B: Jan. 12, 1836
D: Aug. 2, 1889

Harry T. Halsey
B: Nov. 12, 1864
D: Sept. 30, 1903








Abigail Fithian Halsey
B: Oct. 2, 1878
D: Oct. 14, 1946








Rev. Jesse Halsey D.D.
B: 1882
D: 1954
A Servant of the Lord Jesus Christ







Frederick Isham Halsey
B: 1912
D: 1239
Be Thou Faithful







Wilmun H. Halsey
B: 1920
D: 1928
The Child Ministered unto the Lord